JUNIOR CHUA SAYS ANCIENT TAOISTS CAN FIX YOUR SEXLESS MARRIAGE

 So, you thought you knew every trick in the book to get your partner going. Practice these tips to add to your prowess.

 1. Keep your panties on

Wearing underwear can really hot up the session. It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other, teasing and stroking through the fabric. It acts like foreplay where you are building up the anticipation, so that when you finally do have skin-on-skin contact, it’ll be that much more explosive and exciting.

2. Warm breath on your nape
Nothing arouses you more than the warm breath of your partner on your nape – it’s the only sound in the room and is very erotic. In no time will you be a ready and willing partner.

3. Do it movie-style
Every Hollywood movie has one scene where the couple is doing it standing up – against a wall, stairs, behind a door, etc. So what is stopping you from doing it too? Not only will such a quickie have your adrenaline rush up, it will make you agile on your feet! Pick a moment, but don’t tell him about it and pounce. A hot, wet kiss and the urgency will have him reacting in a way he’s never done before.

4. Fast and furious
Jump into the shower with him for a quick, hot make-out session. Change out of your cotton panties into a lacy thong. You could also cuddle up behind him while he is preparing breakfast. Whisper in his ear a play-by-play of exactly what it is you plan to do to him tonight. Tell him about your hot dream.

5. Prop shop
Anything can set the mood, so why not go right ahead and try one of these out – board games, delicious food in the bedroom and toys for the tub!

6. Shy gal
Some women may be shy during sex and when you ask them what is it that they would like, they may get nervous and feel it is too demanding to state. What you can do is to try broaching the subject with your partner in a different setting, where you can express your desires in a more relaxed way. How about cuddling up to him while watching a sexy scene on TV and whispering if you could try that out! Your partner will love you for it, so don’t worry please.

7. Be a wild child
There’s something deliciously dangerous about doing it in a non-private area, which could be on the beach or a park, a lift or even a restaurant restroom. You may need to be careful with insects and itchy grass if you are in a park area, and sand is very abrasive so you may want to have a blanket handy. Be prepared for embarrassment if you do have an unwanted visitor. Also please note, there are laws against indecent exposure in public places, so if you care caught, have an explanation ready!

8. Light of your life
Turn off the lights and take a little torch. Guide the glow to areas of your body that you want him to lick or rub. Start with your neck, ears, nipples – go wherever you want him to explore. Even if it’s a nonsexual area like your back, he has to pay attention to that area until you stop shining the flashlight on it.

9. Women love their bodies
Women who enjoy sex are comfortable with touching themselves, as that’s how they learn about their own bodies, what they like or don’t and how they can reach orgasm quickly or slowly depending on their mood. For women, there are other ways of having an orgasm and not just by having sex, and they control their erotic destiny: they know they can come whenever they want, and that makes them more confident and relaxed lovers.

10. Say ‘no’ to routine
Stash that remote away before you leave for work so that when you return, your partner is unlikely to find it. Have some we-time – talk about your day, walk your pets together and have a leisurely drink. After dinner, serve him a special dessert after the kids go to bed – but tell him that you two must feed each other with one spoon. Add a flirty ‘you lose if…’ to the game and watch how your evening pattern takes a stimulating change.

11. Old school of thought: Both partners should be equally active in bed
New school of thought: It’s absolutely fine to handover all control or take charge, eitherway.

As it is all about sexual satisfaction and pleasure, why don’t you decide which way the wind will blow? Your man will love it if you take control! However, it doesn’t mean that every time you make love it has to be exactly 50/50 score. Sometimes one of you is just too beat or burned-out to have the energy for a night of vigorous sex, but you can still lie back and have some fun.

12. Work on yourself
Excite yourself before the romp with candles, music and wine as you have a better chance of peaking repeatedly, if you are already aroused. The stronger your sexual energy before someone touches you, the easier it is to have one orgasm and even multiples.

13. Ditch the time slot
Who ever said that you have to have sex only at night? It’s a restricting notion, one that will have you feeling tired and dying to hit the pillow. Say Richa, 34, “Our best sex is around seven-thirty, when my husband and I both get home from work. We are so charged that just seeing him still look handsome makes my pulses race. We strip off our clothes and have a steamy session. In fact, we both spend the afternoon looking forward to this time!” Happy hour isn’t the only prime time to pounce. The timings could vary, for some it may be only weekend afternoons or but for the others, it’s the first thing pre-work. “Seven in the morning is the only time we have to ourselves, so that’s when we get it on,” says Anjali, 37. “From a sedate once a week to almost every morning, we are the new sexaholics on the block!”

14. Play games
What if your wife asked you if she could rub her face against your bare chest, if she could kiss your nipples and if she could undo your pants? But why would she ask for permission? Be truthful, wouldn’t you feel more aroused with each permission you were granting? Madhav agreed and said, “Part of it is hearing what she would do next, and part of it was the idea that I was actually granting her favours, like she wanted it so badly and needed to make me happy too.”

15. Eyes open wide
Try not to switch off the light tonight, as you will be turned on by what you see. Don’t be self-conscious as both men and women are stimulated by erotic visuals, according to an Archives of Sexual Behavior study. Try keeping the lights on and your eyes open (this also aids communication, as you can see what pleases your partner). Making love in front of mirrors or using video cameras is a variation on the same theme. The effort pays off. Once you begin to appreciate foreplay as an integral part of sexual satisfaction and the stronger marriage that comes with it, will always be just one short step away.

16. Crackle in the kitchen
The bedroom may get boring after a while, so change in location is sure to help. The kitchen slabs may be cold, but who has the time to think about it. Take care to keep sharp objects stashed away.

17. When you have 60 seconds
Try one of these super hot moves, made to fit any schedule!

Plan a sex Saturday: Slip into his shirt pocket a note that says, “Saturday, sex all day. Mobile phones, friends and relatives not invited. Be there in our bedroom.”

Try the direct route: Take his hand, place it on your thigh – and then slide it higher, and higher…

18. Light, feathery kisses
A kiss on the hand is not the prerogative of only women, men too love being kissed on their hands. Place the tip of your tongue on the webbed area at the base of his fingers, then slowly slide your way up the side. This move will give him goose bumps because this area is as sensitive as his inner ear. This will drive him completely crazy.

19. Novel love
Be intense, be dramatic, be what you read in romance novels. Take as much time as possible. Be loving about it with a hint of nostalgia and emotion. Chances are both of your will be rejuvenated not only sexually, but emotionally as well.

20. Sleep in the buff
Skin on silk or even fine cotton is a heady combination. Try dropping your inhibitions and step by step to sleeping with no clothes on. You may find sleep difficult as you are not used to it, but trust me, it will lead to sexy dreams, a tantalizing cuddle… and plentiful more.

1. Keep your panties on
Wearing underwear can really hot up the session. It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other, teasing and stroking through the fabric. It acts like foreplay where you are building up the anticipation, so that when you finally do have skin-on-skin contact, it’ll be that much more explosive and exciting.

2. Warm breath on your nape
Nothing arouses you more than the warm breath of your partner on your nape – it’s the only sound in the room and is very erotic. In no time will you be a ready and willing partner.

3. Do it movie-style
Every Hollywood movie has one scene where the couple is doing it standing up – against a wall, stairs, behind a door, etc. So what is stopping you from doing it too? Not only will such a quickie have your adrenaline rush up, it will make you agile on your feet! Pick a moment, but don’t tell him about it and pounce. A hot, wet kiss and the urgency will have him reacting in a way he’s never done before.

4. Fast and furious
Jump into the shower with him for a quick, hot make-out session. Change out of your cotton panties into a lacy thong. You could also cuddle up behind him while he is preparing breakfast. Whisper in his ear a play-by-play of exactly what it is you plan to do to him tonight. Tell him about your hot dream.

5. Prop shop
Anything can set the mood, so why not go right ahead and try one of these out – board games, delicious food in the bedroom and toys for the tub!

6. Shy gal
Some women may be shy during sex and when you ask them what is it that they would like, they may get nervous and feel it is too demanding to state. What you can do is to try broaching the subject with your partner in a different setting, where you can express your desires in a more relaxed way. How about cuddling up to him while watching a sexy scene on TV and whispering if you could try that out! Your partner will love you for it, so don’t worry please.

7. Be a wild child
There’s something deliciously dangerous about doing it in a non-private area, which could be on the beach or a park, a lift or even a restaurant restroom. You may need to be careful with insects and itchy grass if you are in a park area, and sand is very abrasive so you may want to have a blanket handy. Be prepared for embarrassment if you do have an unwanted visitor. Also please note, there are laws against indecent exposure in public places, so if you care caught, have an explanation ready!

8. Light of your life
Turn off the lights and take a little torch. Guide the glow to areas of your body that you want him to lick or rub. Start with your neck, ears, nipples – go wherever you want him to explore. Even if it’s a nonsexual area like your back, he has to pay attention to that area until you stop shining the flashlight on it.

9. Women love their bodies
Women who enjoy sex are comfortable with touching themselves, as that’s how they learn about their own bodies, what they like or don’t and how they can reach orgasm quickly or slowly depending on their mood. For women, there are other ways of having an orgasm and not just by having sex, and they control their erotic destiny: they know they can come whenever they want, and that makes them more confident and relaxed lovers.

10. Say ‘no’ to routine
Stash that remote away before you leave for work so that when you return, your partner is unlikely to find it. Have some we-time – talk about your day, walk your pets together and have a leisurely drink. After dinner, serve him a special dessert after the kids go to bed – but tell him that you two must feed each other with one spoon. Add a flirty ‘you lose if…’ to the game and watch how your evening pattern takes a stimulating change.

11. Old school of thought: Both partners should be equally active in bed
New school of thought: It’s absolutely fine to handover all control or take charge, eitherway.

As it is all about sexual satisfaction and pleasure, why don’t you decide which way the wind will blow? Your man will love it if you take control! However, it doesn’t mean that every time you make love it has to be exactly 50/50 score. Sometimes one of you is just too beat or burned-out to have the energy for a night of vigorous sex, but you can still lie back and have some fun.

12. Work on yourself
Excite yourself before the romp with candles, music and wine as you have a better chance of peaking repeatedly, if you are already aroused. The stronger your sexual energy before someone touches you, the easier it is to have one orgasm and even multiples.

13. Ditch the time slot
Who ever said that you have to have sex only at night? It’s a restricting notion, one that will have you feeling tired and dying to hit the pillow. Say Richa, 34, “Our best sex is around seven-thirty, when my husband and I both get home from work. We are so charged that just seeing him still look handsome makes my pulses race. We strip off our clothes and have a steamy session. In fact, we both spend the afternoon looking forward to this time!” Happy hour isn’t the only prime time to pounce. The timings could vary, for some it may be only weekend afternoons or but for the others, it’s the first thing pre-work. “Seven in the morning is the only time we have to ourselves, so that’s when we get it on,” says Anjali, 37. “From a sedate once a week to almost every morning, we are the new sexaholics on the block!”

14. Play games
What if your wife asked you if she could rub her face against your bare chest, if she could kiss your nipples and if she could undo your pants? But why would she ask for permission? Be truthful, wouldn’t you feel more aroused with each permission you were granting? Madhav agreed and said, “Part of it is hearing what she would do next, and part of it was the idea that I was actually granting her favours, like she wanted it so badly and needed to make me happy too.”

15. Eyes open wide
Try not to switch off the light tonight, as you will be turned on by what you see. Don’t be self-conscious as both men and women are stimulated by erotic visuals, according to an Archives of Sexual Behavior study. Try keeping the lights on and your eyes open (this also aids communication, as you can see what pleases your partner). Making love in front of mirrors or using video cameras is a variation on the same theme. The effort pays off. Once you begin to appreciate foreplay as an integral part of sexual satisfaction and the stronger marriage that comes with it, will always be just one short step away.

16. Crackle in the kitchen
The bedroom may get boring after a while, so change in location is sure to help. The kitchen slabs may be cold, but who has the time to think about it. Take care to keep sharp objects stashed away.

17. When you have 60 seconds
Try one of these super hot moves, made to fit any schedule!

Plan a sex Saturday: Slip into his shirt pocket a note that says, “Saturday, sex all day. Mobile phones, friends and relatives not invited. Be there in our bedroom.”

Try the direct route: Take his hand, place it on your thigh – and then slide it higher, and higher…

18. Light, feathery kisses
A kiss on the hand is not the prerogative of only women, men too love being kissed on their hands. Place the tip of your tongue on the webbed area at the base of his fingers, then slowly slide your way up the side. This move will give him goose bumps because this area is as sensitive as his inner ear. This will drive him completely crazy.

19. Novel love
Be intense, be dramatic, be what you read in romance novels. Take as much time as possible. Be loving about it with a hint of nostalgia and emotion. Chances are both of your will be rejuvenated not only sexually, but emotionally as well.

20. Sleep in the buff
Skin on silk or even fine cotton is a heady combination. Try dropping your inhibitions and step by step to sleeping with no clothes on. You may find sleep difficult as you are not used to it, but trust me, it will lead to sexy dreams, a tantalizing cuddle… and plentiful more.

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Chua Tee Yong to blame for Chua Soi Lek’s adultery?? He did not stop the father from cheating on the mother?? Don’t insult the intelligence of Malaysians please!Go blame your wife for your hotel room antics. Ask her why she did not stop you. Or blame that woman. No, actually it was Pakatan’s fault too. Go to hellIt is no wonder that his response to being caught on video while fornicating was that he was sorry that he was caught. His betrayal to his wife and family did not matter at all. Your depravity knows no bound. You know what; you should not blame yourself for having sex with Yam Yam in the hotel. You should blame that woman, and also the hotel for not checking the hidden camera. The more you talk, the more you alienate the people you want to win over. At least the MB has credentials from the corporate world. What do you have? No real world experience, i.e. zilch! Oh I forgot. You do have an adulterous father who has paved the way for you …. A position which you would never have gotten to without him. Congratulations “YB”.people in power have the time to go through the nitty gritty of everything. They have a team of professionals in advising and planning for them. They will make decisions based on these professionals. What is this young whelp know of administrating a government or a company?at first you accused the Selangor Government of bailing out Talam to the tune of billions. Then you receded to talking about irrelevant details without understanding the overall picture of the deal. If I may ask you a direct question, is there a billion ringgit bail out or not? If there is, then how come you stopped singing that song? If not, then you owe all of us an apology. Looks like you do not know the answer. The way I see it, you are probably not even fit to be a student on matters of corporate restructuring because you don’t seem to be able to grasp commercial reality with deals such as this one with Talam. Go back to school and revisit the subject with your professors. Where did you say you qualified from? Maybe someone should check up the credibility of the university.This famous and corrupt MCA pornstar’s son is not fit to be the deputy minister of agriculture as he cannot handle this massive corruption of ” Cowgate “. This kuchi rat is a nobody trying desperately to be somebody and seeking attention. Chua, let me tell you that you can try as much as you want, we Selangorians have full faith in our MB and are very happy with his work. You are not even 1/3 of what he is. The only thing you are is another small fry with an equally small brain desperately seeking attention. Is this your porn star father’s way of preparing you to take over MCA? Just make alot of noise with no substance
“It’ ain’t over till the fat lady sings.” We have all heard this popular allusion to the folly of rushing to judgment, and its accompanying image of the overweight soprano in braids and horned-helmet in the role of Wagner’s Brünnhilde. It’s commonly believed to refer to Wagner’s Siegfried, where Brünnhilde doesn’t appear until the final scene of a very long (5 hrs. 20 min.) opera. The stereotype of the over nourished opera singer reflected the reality of what past generations of opera-goers had been accustomed to seeing on the stage. Countless reasons for this phenomenon were offered up, but the most popular seemed to be that large girth is necessary for producing big sound.
Things began to change in the middle of the last century. Artists began to demonstrate a new commitment to delivering performances where the dramatic content was as outstanding as the vocal delivery. This was new — singers had been accustomed to delivering their lines with static dignity, and a world of new possibilities began to open up.Maria Callas experienced a much-discussed period of weight loss in the 1950s, and brought a level of glamour and dramatic conviction that was a revelation to opera audiences.
Current audiences have come to expect much of our opera singers. Vocal standards are higher than ever, and while delivering the most demanding music, singers must engage in sword play, physical assaults, and other challenging stage direction. Today, in order to get through a complete opera, especially in a lead role, singers must be as fit physically as they must be vocally.
The growing prevalence of the media, including television and DVD recordings, requires singers to be almost as concerned with their appearance as with their voices. Especially in Europe, opera stars grace the pages of fashion magazines often. Marie Claire Italiarecently ran a story on the five sexiest men of opera, which prompted a Facebook post by Florida Grand Opera asking which singers had been left out. The result was a flurry of comments that led to this very blog post.
The fact is, today’s opera stars, men and women alike, must have the whole package. They need to be as convincing in their appearance as they are in their singing. Here is a slideshow featuring some of opera’s most striking singers — each a world-class voice and a rewarding sight to see on stage.
“Hope Springs,” the cringingly funny mid-life comedy about a marriage that has lost its sexual spark, seems to have struck a chord with audiences in its opening weekend. It’s a departure for the movie industry, which usually creates the impression that everyone is having mind-blowing sex with gorgeous partners, but it more closely tracks what’s really happening behind many couples’ closed doors.
Even though we live in one of the most sexualized cultures ever, Americans are having less sex than they were in the 1950′s. In fact, according to the American Medical Association (AMA), 40 million adults in relationships are not having sex at all, and a third of all women report a lack of interest in sex. No wonder people have resonated with Meryl Streep’s and Tommy Lee Jones’ characters as they try to restore intimacy in what has become a sexless marriage.
As a practitioner of Chinese medicine specializing in reproduction and sexual health, I’ve talked with thousands of people over the years about their sex lives. So I’ve heard over and over again about how much sex people are not having, how they just don’t feel much like it, how they are too tired or too stressed to even think about it. But I also hear, with equal fervor from women like Kay, Meryl Streep’s character in “Hope Springs,” how much they want to want sex. So I’m always happy to be able to tell them there are simple solutions available, and that the ancient Taoist founders of Chinese medicine wrote it all down thousands of years ago. Their wisdom offers modern couples key insights about how to want — and have — great sex.
That’s what my upcoming book “Sex Again: Recharging Your Libido” is all about, but in a nutshell: the Taoists understood that good sex is important to a person’s health and happiness; that good sex is important to the health of a relationship; and that good sex always involves the mutual flow of energy between partners, with both people giving and receiving it. And that all those things are themselves intimately entwined. If sex isn’t creating energetic connection, and powering both you and the relationship, then over time it is likely to drop off. As in, over a cliff.
But having sex again — good sex — can have you back scaling the heights. My single best piece of advice to anyone who wants to want to have sex, but hasn’t really been feeling it, is to go ahead and do it anyway. Pretend you are in a sneaker commercial and just do it. I don’t mean to sound glib, and I know it seems easier said than done. But there’s real Chinese medicine behind the advice — and a proven track record amongst my patients that it works. The Chinese medicine philosophy is that having sex creates connection, moves stagnant energy and restores balance — both within you, and between partners. Balance, connection, and flowing energy are what you need to feel your sexual desire. In other words, having sex makes you want more sex.
Assuming it’s good sex. And the Taoists have that covered, too. They offer plenty of meditations, positions and techniques designed to ensure the sex is good. As “Hope Springs” proclaims, “Sometimes to keep the magic, you need to learn a few tricks.” The following is just one example. It’s an exercise designed by the Taoists specifically to move stagnant sexual energy in the body, circulate sexual energy from the pelvis through the rest of the body, and find a place of balance from which to make a sexual connection with someone else. I call my simplified version The Loop. It combines breathing with visualization into a meditative practice.
Practicing The Loop will help you tap into your own sexual energy if you’ve been out of touch with it, and help you cultivate more of it. And it will enhance sexual pleasure. It is also, speaking very practically, a great way to get started, especially if, like the couple in “Hope Springs,” your drought has been long.
The Loop
Sit comfortably with your eyes closed. Imagine a shallow bowl nestled inside your pelvis — a bowl filled with warm oil. Now imagine a tube or straw running along your spine. Inhale, and as you do, imagine the warm oil coursing up through the tube, as if led by your breath, moving from your pelvic area up to the very top of your head. Hold your breath in for a count of three (or five, as you get more experienced). Then exhale, imagining the warm oil flowing down, along a line in the center of the front of your body, from your head through your mouth, across your chest, down through your abdomen, and back into the bowl in your pelvis. Hold your breath out as the bowl finishes filling, then after three to five seconds begin again with an inhale. The idea is to create a continuous loop — and run through it about six times.
With practice you can learn to do this loop with your partner, synchronizing your breathing so one person breathes in as the other breathes out. Expert loopers learn to do this exercise whilst they are having sex, timing the breathing and energetic exchange with the rhythm of intercourse. My patients who have learned The Loop almost always love it. They happily report that their experience with The Loop helps them to feel more balanced and connected and, not coincidentally, more like having sex. Or could the renewed sexual desire come from the way The Loop leads to more intense orgasms?readmorehttp://chuliastreettulukan.blogspot.com/2012/08/junior-chua-says-senior-chua-soi-leks.html?zx=802b8bf8618dad30

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